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Essays on life, absurdity, and the uncomfortable gap between who we think we are and how we actually behave. No paywalls. No signup required. Just bring your own coffee.
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Two Sugars, One Life
Full essays on life, absurdity, and the uncomfortable gap between who we think we are and how we actually behave. 600–1200 words. Coffee required.
Espresso Thoughts
Quick hits. One observation. One punch. 150–300 words. For when you only have time to spill a little.
Book Thoughts
Reviews of other books through a lens that has survived its own disasters. Also: what the research actually says versus what the cover promises.
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View allEspresso Thoughts · March 1, 2026 · 5 min read
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Two Sugars, One Life · March 1, 2026 · 5 min read
Pre-Decided
The spiral doesn't send a calendar invite. Your protocol should already be loaded.
Espresso Thoughts · March 1, 2026 · 2 min read
Are We Okay?
Asking 'are we okay' fourteen times isn't about the answer. It's about a nervous system that can't absorb reassurance.
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