Articles tagged “relationships”
8 essays
March 4, 20261 min read
The Apology Industrial Complex
An apology without change is just a receipt.
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March 4, 20261 min read
Winning Your Way to Alone
I don't need to be right anymore. I need to be married. Those are almost never the same project.
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February 27, 20265 min read
Two Nervous Systems Walk Into a Relationship
Sometimes the fight isn't about the dishes. It's about two completely different nervous systems trying to survive the same moment, in opposite directions.
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February 25, 20269 min read
What 'Attached' Gets Right (And Where It Lost Me)
I read 'Attached' during my divorce, highlighted half the book, and immediately misidentified both of us. A review.
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November 17, 20254 min read
To What End?
We were fighting about a dishwasher. Twenty minutes. Exposed nerves. All over dish placement.
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October 13, 20254 min read
The IKEA Test
I'm convinced IKEA furniture is a government-designed stress test for relationships.
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September 29, 20256 min read
The Fine Print of Love
Four rules. Simple to understand. Brutally hard to live by.
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September 22, 20254 min read
Bob's Bank of Trust
Bob's turned overdrafting his Trust account into performance art. We've all got a Bob story.
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